It may have been one year, five years or even 50 years since your special day. Flashbacks of the white dress, emotional speeches and dancing guests flood your memories. You would give anything to be back in that moment and renewing your wedding vows seems like the perfect idea. Building upon old promises or establishing new ones is the epitome of romance. And then it hits you. How on earth could you ever afford to replicate your wedding?
Celebrity Wedding Vow Renewals
Celebrities seem to be leading the latest trend in vow renewal with many holding lavish gatherings in grand locations such as Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon’s ceremony in Disneyland, California. Others have followed suit, splashing out thousands to reaffirm their marriage vows. However, not all celebrity couples want to show-off their million-pound fortunes.
Choosing the Perfect Venue
As recently as January 2017, David and Victoria Beckham have secretly had a vow renewal ceremony of their own with just six guests present at their private home. If you want the renewal of your marriage vows to be a small and humble event then there is absolutely no reason you can’t hold a private gathering in your back garden or the local park. Decorate your venue with outdoor furniture for that summer garden party feel. Make sure you choose chairs and tables that designed for the British weather by checking out our durable collection of outdoor stacking chairs.
Wedding vow renewal ceremonies are not legally binding and therefore they can be conducted just about anywhere. Choosing somewhere with sentimental value can really make this special day just about the two of you, your love and your memories. Limiting guest numbers to those who mean the most to you such as parents, children and long-standing friends will ensure your ceremony celebrates your relationship together as a family. Acquaintances are not going to be offended if they are not invited so don’t panic about trying to include everyone.
Dressing for a Wedding Vow Renewal Ceremony
Choosing the dress code for a budget vow renewal ceremony can be very simple. Some may choose to go big like their celebrity idols and wear their original wedding attire or something similar; others might prefer a smart/casual approach. Whatever your decision it is important to explain this to your guests so they don’t arrive feeling under or over-dressed.
Budget ceremonies don’t have to look cheap. You can find a wealth of fabulous clothes on the high street, and as you are not organising an actual wedding there are no traditional conventions to follow. Pick a cocktail dress, a casual shirt and trousers or if you’re on the beach, dig out those Bermuda shorts. Whatever your decision, ensure you are comfortable as you’re not there to please anyone but yourselves.
Entertainment Options for a Small Budget
Planning to entertain guests on a reasonable budget can be difficult. Once you start adding up DJ costs, lights, food and a venue it can get out of hand. As we have mentioned before, wedding vow renewal ceremonies are not there to out-do the big day itself. Step back and plan ways to enjoy a relaxed evening with those closest to you.
Making a playlist of your favourite songs from across the decades, and have this playing while everyone picks their way through a buffet will make for a relaxed atmosphere. Alternatively, ask a local musician or band if they would be interested in playing and that way you will be helping out the local community too. BBQ’s are also a great way to fill everyone’s appetites, and you could even suggest that those attending bring a small contribution such as potato salad or dessert. You shouldn’t be expecting any wedding renewal gifts so this would be a nice way for your family and friends to play a part in this special day.
If you are holding your vow renewal ceremony indoors, stacking chairs would be ideal for saving space. They could be set out for the ceremony itself, and then stacked away to provide extra space for those who want to dance the night away. Why not consider hosting a dance competition to get your guests moving on the dance floor. Our recent post on the approaching wedding season takes you through different seating ideas which could be useful for your renewal ceremony.
Remember, It’s Not the Real Thing
When planning your vow renewal ceremony it’s important to remember that your guests won’t be expecting a full-scale wedding style celebration and you definitely do not have to spend the rest of your life savings on the event. Planning a wedding vow renewal ceremony should be a fun and pleasurable experience for everyone involved, especially you. Our guide to renewing wedding vows on a budget will be sure to help you make your day memorable without the costs.
Trent Furniture offers a range of products suitable for both budget and premium occasions. We have a wide range of seating available and will be more than happy to talk you through your ideas. Get in touch with a member of the team today and start planning the renewal of your marriage vows.
Celebrity References
Mariah Carey Vow Renewal
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2317528/Mariah-Carey-Nick-Cannon-SHUT-DOWN-Disneyland-renew-wedding-vows.html
David Beckham Vow Renewal
http://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/david-beckham-shocks-fans-marriage-9716109